Sorry for the shitty grammar, I'm too lazy and upset to fix it right now....
haha this story's fun. So, today, my girlfriend came over for a few hours. I woke up at 10 (which is early for me, I wake up much later usually since I'm a night owl and stay up till like 3-4 most nights. Also, I didn't have bed to sleep on, since the bedframe broke. That was fun) I went to take a shower, brush my teeth, etc. It's 45 minutes till 11 (when we were going to leave to pick her up) and I had to take a shit. Now, I have IBS or something similar, some weird ass bowel problems and it sucks. I really had to go. So, I go to the restroom, and my mom is fucking screaming for me to hurry my ass up and go. We weren't even supposed to leave until 11, but whatever. 8 minutes pass, and I'm not even close to being done but I have to just go ahead and go since I had no other choice. Felt terrible, but whatever.
anyway, she's real nice to my girlfriend, who we'll call M for privacy sake. She's this great talker in front of friends or outside family, making tons of conversation, and being incredibly nice. The entire time, I'm wondering who the woman speaking is. It certainly isn't my mother.
Anyway, we get home, hang out for a few hours, everything is swell. We drop her back off home, everything is good. Except that I was starving, I hadn't eaten anything yet today. It's 4:00. My family usually eats dinner real late, at around seven. So, I go eat some chips and start to heat up some spagehttios in the microwave. My mom barges in the kitchen, yelling at me for cooking because she was going to make dinner. I had only scooped the spagehttios in the bowl, I hadn't heaten them up or anything, so I tell her i'm going to just put them back in the can in the fridge. She starts yelling even more, because apparently I never eat any leftover... I mean, yeah, when I was younger, like 4 years ago and a picky little shit (I'm 14 now). I do eat leftovers now, just the only picky food thing I still hold onto is not wanting to eat expired food the day after (my family does that and it scares me, I have some weird phobias and I know it's irrational but it doesn't help)
So she takes them out of the fridge, and puts them back in the bowl and tells me to eat them. I tell her no, and that i'd like to eat dinner with everyone else. She keeps demanding that I eat it right then and there, but when I'm upset I lose all my hunger, so I wasn't hungry right at that second. She was close to force-feeding me it (which she has done before when I was around 9 years old, when she made this disgusting ass watery mac and cheese and I didn't want to eat it) I tell her that I needed to go to the bathroom really bad (Which I did) and she gets mad, tells me to get out of her face, and puts it all in the dump.
I go downstairs for a few hours, and she makes dinner without me. Doesn't invite me up or anything. (Which is strange, given she's usually engulfing and forces me to eat with them) I still hadn't eaten anything that day except a tortilla and a half and a few chips. thanks, mom. Me, starving, ask if I go up and ask if I can heat up leftovers, which she grudgingly responds with, "sure" in the most upset voice she can. I heat up a potato in the microwave, and a peice of stake, and eat the tough meat on the dining table all by myself. When I finish, I throw my trash away, say, "Thanks for dinner mom" and go back downstairs. I could feel her death stare from behind me, but whatever. I'm so sick of her bullshit. I can deal with it, but as soon as she hurts my baby sister, (which will happen eventually I'm sure) I'm getting CPS involved. Fuck my mom. I love my dad, i dunno why he puts up with her, and he is nice but he is so passive he never stands up for us or himself. sorry im just rambling now. yeah, that was my christmas eve.
OH, and my insurance no longer supports my therapist so I can't ask him for help anymore. that sucks. He doesn't know about the emotional abuse because it stopped for a while after my suicide attempt, but now that i'm recovering she's doing the same shit that drove me down that path.
Submitted December 24, 2016 at 07:52PM by throwaway_newagain http://ift.tt/2isacix
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