We've been together for 2 years. When we started dating we has a really good sex life and went out all the time and so on. For about the last year I've been really low on money, so we still do new things once in a while but mostly we hang out at my house or her house when we see each other.
Over the last year we've argued over the frequency of our Lovelife. Basically we only do it about once a week. Id like more and she would like less. Once a week is barely anything for me so I still end up just helping myself with porn most of the time which really sucks.
Even though I've been doing everything I can to try and make it pleasurable for her, lots of foreplay and oral and dirty talk and I try to be passionate. She has progressively been getting more like a bystander than a participant.
Last night kind of put it in perspective for me. She never initiates any kind of affection despite rejecting all my attempts to get her in the mood. Then She just turns over to go to sleep and pulls down her pants and is like go for it. I know you get moody when we don't do it.
This is not the kind of relationship I ever wanted. I dont feel wanted. And I feel like I'm still just masturbating but im using someone elses body. This just sucks.
I feel like im crazy for wanting lovemaking more than once a week and actually having her want it. It didn't used to be like this. The first year we only saw each other once a week but she really wanted me. Now we see each othee often ans its just awful.
She has been under a lot of stress lately and so have I. But I just can't believe this is the situation. I know she loves me because she takes good care of me in every non sexual way (cooking, cleaning, buys me thoughtful presents), but I feel like such an important part is missing and it really makes me angry.
Tldr: girlfriend is becoming more passive and its like she just has sex for me now, and it sucks and is not bonding.
Submitted January 08, 2017 at 03:25PM by Prime357111317 http://ift.tt/2i7IDNY
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