So it's been a while since I've posted. After Christmas we went very low/limited contact with the Shrieker. Ever since we found out she had been saying the nasty things about us and the things she did text to FH.
FH has gotten texts asking him to have lunch with her, saying she won't bring up anything negative and just wants to see him because she misses him SOOOO MUCHHH. But then alternates with how we have hurt her and can we put the past behind us. None of this ever mentions that she's sorry or seeing me. Whatever you give me acid reflux I don't want to see you either. But FH wants her to apologize to the both of us and wants me to be there too. He doesn't want to engage her with out me by his side and he wants her to apologize for what she's done and caused. I'd like an apology but I don't expect one from a narcissistic and inconsiderate Shrieker. When she brought up the lunch thing again he told her no he doesn't want to meet with her during the week and that she needs to sit down with the both of us if she wants to talk on a weekend when we are both free. She said OF COURSE I JUST KNOW MONKEYSANDBEARS IS SOOO BUSY WITH THE WEDDING PLANNING!!! 🙄 yeah sure, how would you know that??
So FH and I have been very busy between social engagements, trips and planning a fucking wedding. Finally he said to her in a month from now we can meet you. Shrieker wants us to come over with the dog (who she doesn't even like) and have dinner with them. FH says no we can meet you out for lunch that day bc we have a meeting with our priest for the wedding in the late afternoon. She texts back 4 days later that we can come over and she'll make us lunch. He hasn't texted her back in a week. He says if she brings it up again he will re-state that we can meet her out somewhere but we're not going over there. The conversation we have with her needs to be at a neutral place and he's not giving into her antics. Also we don't want to eat her crappy cooking!
In between all of this the Shrieker has cancelled her room at the hotel for the wedding. Not sure why, she never told us. Maybe she didn't like the breakfast invite for the morning after that my family is throwing for us? I guess they really want to drive an hour home after their son's only wedding since his brother got married at the courthouse. Pissed off FH but we didn't say anything about it to her, why give the Shrieker the satisfaction?
Needless to say I'm very proud of my FH for standing up to his monster of a mother. Not really looking forward to seeing the Shrieker in a week and a half but I'll be sure to update sooner rather than later because I am sure there will be tears, lots of crocodile bull shit ones from the Shrieker I'm sure.
Submitted February 28, 2017 at 03:33PM by MonkeysandBearsOhMY http://ift.tt/2lmn6PZ
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