Falling hard for someone over 30 after almost a decade of not dating, could I please get some help?

Hey everyone I am sorry if this is the wrong sub, I am 34F, diagnosed with ADHD since beginning of 2003 and I am falling for a 39 years old guy and I don’t want to mess this up but don’t really know what to do. The last time I felt like this, I was 19.

As for us, we both are single, never been married, no kids, live in our own apartment alone and while he has pets, I don’t.

I don’t want to scare him away but also don’t want him to think that I am not interested. I am out of the dating scene since 7 years, have ADHD and last time I had sex before having sex with this person was several months ago. When I was 19, I fell in love for the first time and I had this very similar reaction, but at that time I still lived with my parents and have a lot of friends I could consult.

What I have done so far:

• Cooking and cleaning his place
• Have sex and giving massage
• Encourage him to spend time with his friends
• Leaving him alone when he needs to be alone
• Enjoy silent hours just watching TV or chill out with him
• Listening to his problems and expressing sympathy
• Treat him to lunch, movies, sight-seeing, etc

Anything else I can do? Should I consult some professionals? Sorry guys, just really confused about this whole thing. I am happy if I make him happy and I think I get high from that feeling. He is the most alive person I know. He loves life and is surrounded by a lot of living things. He is also very comfortable in his skin. My heart is racing all the time, my hands are sweaty and food taste all stale, I am feeling like I want to vomit and I cannot stop thinking about the time we spend together. We live in two different cities and meet only in the weekends. Thanks.

Also to add: He has a lot of night terrors and if he wakes up gasping or screaming, I’d soothe him with caresses and kisses and he will take my hand and put it right over his left pectoral/heart. This is a good sign that he also feels my presence comforting, right?

Submitted January 24, 2017 at 06:37AM by Rainai http://ift.tt/2jXEfDe