Faith in humanity lost.

Here it comes. I've been keeping it inside for too long.

(At first, I have to apologize for any grammar, spelling and language-related mistakes, but feel free to correct me so I can learn. Also, my first post. Proud 😁)

I moved in with 5 other people in 5 bedroom house. I'm sharing one with my boyfriend. One of my roomates is not legaly here. When we were moving in she came to me and said she has nowhere else to go. I spoke to others and they agreed to let her stay in that one spare room. After all, we know each other for a longer time( high school friends).

That was 3 months ago and now I'm really regretting my decision. She annoys the hell out of everyone. Especially me because I'm crazy and stupid enough to run around and clean after her.

Situations:

• As there is 6 of us it's not easy to keep track who leaves dirty dishes. Once when we were out for a walk I talked to her about how I hate mess and how people should clean after themselves. She agreed with me. After some time (it was just her,me and my SO while others went home for few weeks) I started noticing it is her who leaves the dishes and the kitchen dirty. I was so suprised because she works in kitchen and should know the importance of clean food environment. When she eventually decides to wash the dishes she does half of them and I always have to re-wash then. She never fucking even said thanks and if she doesen't notice somehow her dirty plates are somehow magically clean the next day she must be stupid.

• It's not just kitchen. Everywhere she goes she leaves a mess. I really don't care about her room, but come on, keep our shared areas clean ! You often trip because she leaves her bag or shoes on the floor. I wouldn't like to generalize and say she has to be perfectly tidy because she's a girl, but our other roommates are guys and clean more after themselves.

• As there is lot of us we don't buy food all together, but in the beginning she, my SO and I made a deal about buying food together. That was before any of us started to get annoyed by her. We are still buying food together and it really bothers me when she leaves it out of the fridge. I hate wasting food and we are not in the best situation with money at this moment. She leaves cheese out, bread out of the bag etc.

• she often forgets to turn off the lights and even once I caught her leaving the tap running. She often does stupid stuff like that.

• Yesterday, for the second time, she left our window facing the street open. This time over night. Our neighborhood seems fine, but this city is really big and full of freaks. And I often read Let's not meet.

• As I said she is really annoying. Every day she texts me about random stuff that I don't really care about. You can wait til you get home to share it with me.

*Often, out of nowhere, she starts making noices. High pitched noice. I don't know why she does that. She also randomly tapes her hand with a duct tape or spills candle wax on my joint rolling plate amd of course never cleans it up. Stuff like that.

• she invited her family over for a week. I really don't have a problem with that, but she was working half of the time . And when I felt like lighting up a spliff I had to hide. I didn't do that when I was back home. Shortly after that she started telling us about how her friend will come here and it will be great. Wtf you never asked anyone. We made her aware of that.

• There was a problem with her paying the rent. She is, for now, the only one working here. We all have some money saved as we were working before we came here. Well, she had some silly way of paying it whenever she likes. For example, 50 dollars now,100 in 2 weeks etc.We told her we want money on the 1st for the following month, as all of us are paying like that. She still owes us a bit of money. When we were fighting about that she told us we needed her more than she needs us and said she'll leave. When it came to that she was all over us " I don't want to leave, sorry" blah blah. .

• she often gives me cooking advice. She thinks she is the best cook there ever was. She dropped after 1 year of cooking school. Her food combinations are rather weird sometimes and don't make sense. Don't think I'm close minded about food, I really love to eat a good meal, but she just mixes random stuff together. I've been cooking my whole life and I really love it and I think I can say I know my way around the kitchen, at least other say so . I really get annoyed when she gives me some basic cooking knowlege advices. She often says she is the best in her work place, but she is only a help staff. "I don't want to brag, but I'm better than anyone there"

• she is often bossy and a know-it-all. When I express my views she is fast to correct me. You can't change the way I think . I often prove her wrong in some stuff. I also have some Kevin material from her.

• she loves to watch shows like Kardashians and 16 and pregnant. Enough said. Sorry people who like that.

• free loader.

Right now I'm laying in bed and don't wanna get out. She was supposed to work whole day, but I woke up to a text(yeah) where she said she called in sick today. It's New Year's Eve, you are totally see through. She'll get fired again and won't have money for the rent.

I know I should confront her, but I'd like you to give me a few advices on what is the right way to do that. I don't want to be extremely rude, but maybe that's the only way. What do you guys think?

And yeah, I know I'm stupid for letting her use my "cleaning services".

Edit: grammar and spelling

Submitted December 31, 2016 at 07:50AM by meowitscow http://ift.tt/2ioaOHd