Hello seddit!
Before I get into the problem itself, I need to give some context.
I'm 21 years old and I have literally no experience with women, not even a single kiss or whatever. This is due to confidence issues (that are mostly solved, the final nail on the coffin would be actually having success) and anxiety. I am a really anxious man, but I recently got into therapy and it's been improving steadily.
I am currently studying for a STEM degree, which means study takes the most of my time and therefore I do not have a really active social life. This translates to "when I get out of home, all I do is to meet up with my good old friends" who are only men.
My problem is that I don't know where to find women! I already expect the unhelpful answer "everywhere, man!", so I want to a bit more precise.
I do not really care for one night stands/casual sex. What I am looking for is a long-term relationship. Yeah, yeah, I know that this is probably too idealistic, I know that I am naive, but I can't ignore my desires.
I do not like bars, discos or pubs (especially because the crowded ones are far from home and I can't drink AND drive), but that's the most obvious places to find chicks.
I also have the problem that my hobbies (listening and playing music, reading, videogames) do not actually draw many women.
I have been told countless times things such as "join a photography/cooking/painting course". Yeah, nice idea besides I don't give a fuck about any of these.
Can you help me finding women?
Submitted March 01, 2017 at 08:17AM by Sinenominibus http://ift.tt/2lqizMG
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