I am 23 years old and engaged. I finish college in May with a bachelors. I have never been in trouble and barely go out. Okay so I have been with my fiancè for 5 years now (been with him for 5 years, been engaged to him for a year). I have worked for the last 3 years and pay bills in the house, pay for my own school and anything I need. So i decided to book a trip with my fiancè to Miami next month for 5 days. Last time i tried to do this, they were flipping out on me and told me i am a disgrace and that they are going to kick me out so i didn't go. I was 20 at the time. This time i realize i got to do what makes me happy and since I work I can buy whatever i want. So i told them briefly about my trip and they did not take me seriously , probably because they think that i wont go again if they yell and try to make me feel like what i am doing is wrong. They say that the family will think im a hoe for going on vacation with a guy. They really care about what people think of me because i am the only girl (i have 3 brothers) but i am the oldest one.
Quite frankly im sick of the manipulation. I hate when they say " we tell you these things for your own good. You have to do things in the right order not do whatever u feel like it." It irritates me. I am looking for a place with my fiancè and they even disagree with that saying i am not ready for the responsibility of cooking and doing laundry and cleaning. Their excuses are so dumb.
What do you guys think of this situation. Regardless I will go on my trip , even if they will lose their shit but I need to know what people think of my situation in general because this is ridiculous.
Submitted February 28, 2017 at 11:31AM by emylove13 http://ift.tt/2lSRN1e
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