25f 4 M for nonmonogamous long-term relationship. Based in the NE US. Interests include art, BDSM, fitness, and cooking.

Hi,

I'm putting feelers out there for someone else looking for a long term childfree, committed, open relationship. My list of 'wants' is so specific I'm open to someone living anywhere.

I'm hunting for what I'm afraid is a mythical beast; a childfree man whose company I enjoy, who is also a responsible, caring, self-aware Dom. I'm significantly into kink, specifically impact play, restraint, ravishment, and service. I'm not interested in humiliation at all, and I'm not looking for a 24/7 arrangement. Just in the bedroom.

I have been non-monogamous for a handful of years, and am getting tired of always being someone else's unicorn, or a secondary partner because people want children. I want a relationship where I can plan a future... a childfree, hedonistic, loving future... where we can have sex with other people.

I'm 5'7, 127lbs, and short-haired. I'm happy to exchange pictures, and show non-face shots early. Given the nature of what I'm revealing I'm reluctant to share immediately. I'm pixieish and above average in attractiveness.

I'm a technologist. I'm stable financially, and have a pretty good idea of what I enjoy and where I want my life to go.

I'm somewhat introverted. I much rather read on the sofa at home with a partner than go to a concert, but I love having dinner parties and being social in small groups. I don't have self esteem issues that I'm aware of. I've done the therapy thing, and I think it's great for everyone. As Dan Savage recommends, I'm in basic working order, and thus available for a relationship.

In my free time I keep fit with rock climbing, dance, running, and bodyweight workouts. I'm very interested in food and drink. I'm not a vegetarian, and I love sour beer and Scotch whiskey. I love to travel. I spend a lot of my free time painting, and consider myself an artist. I don't play video games at all. They make me motion sick. I hardly watch TV.

If I sound like someone you want to know please PM me. Tell me a bit about yourself and your priorities, interests, etc.

Please respect that I'm a human being vulnerable on the internet. If you think my lifestyle is icky, please keep that to yourself.

Xoxo

Submitted December 18, 2016 at 05:48PM by huntingwithunicorns http://ift.tt/2hJYnaR