Finally moved out a few days ago :]

Hey guys,

As far as successful and happy updates go mine is only small. I'm extremely grateful to have moved out and leave my parents crappy house. My dad is kind of just an enabler, while my sister and mum are narcissists.

Because I've moved out I've had to get in touch with my mum about furniture. My dad and stepmum were supposed to help me move on saturday morning but they cancelled because dads old car overheated (they decided to use that one instead of the newer one for whatever reason). So for the last 5 nights I've been sleeping on my sisters blow up mattress. They could have helped move today but instead they took us shopping. So now I have a decorated room but no furniture. No bed, no tv, no microwave, no desk, just a room with a mattress and small table with chairs. I'll admit it gets lonely after a while, my parents don't want much to do with me, and my sister is only helping cause she wants to impress my parents. 

My sister keeps making rude comments about my living circumstances (eg she didn't like the air freshener I bought, and would tell me my place stinks, or after I spend time at her place she will say "have fun sleeping on a blow up mattress hahaha" (she has a queen sized expensive bed)). She wouldn't help me get home yesterday before it started raining, and I came home with groceries soaked. On my first day here I said "what am I supposed to do all day?" then she said "what do you think I did when I first moved here? I did nothing. I got lonely and depressed" (now she has a tv, laptop, expensive phone, proper cooking supplies) I said "can I come over to your place when I get bored?" And she said "no! You need to go through what I went through!" Then I looked at her weirdly and she was "joking".  I went over to her place to make dinner and she was being really dramatic. I finished with my plate and washed it with cold water cause there wasn't much on there to scrub off, then I put it on the drying rack. She stormed into the kitchen and was like "did you use hot water? Did you use soap?" I said "no but the dish is clean" and she went straight over to the rules we made up before I moved in, and read loudly "you are supposed to clean up after yourself in the other persons unit!" I went back into the kitchen to rewash the dish with hot water (there wasn't any soap left), and she watched closely and continued yelling and stamping her feet. I said "remind me not to come over to yours for dinner again" and left.

I've since tried to limit my contact with her. Walk to the shops instead of taking a lift, say no when she wants to come over/wants me to come over. I don't have anywhere else to go. I really want friends but I don't know anyone in this city. 

Anyway thats my little update. Any advice would be appreciated :).

Submitted December 18, 2016 at 07:16AM by Kinky_Dong http://ift.tt/2gOx3n5